Hello, everyone! If you’re like us, you may feel confused about what day it is, but… Happy Friday! Last week we wrote about how music is known to alter people’s moods and, because of its power, focusing on the wedding playlists aspect of wedding planning right now could be a productive, healthy distraction. As we wrote before, working from home gives you the freedom to listen to whatever music you want–and thus craft a creative wedding playlist. Additionally, there’s a chance your friends and family will only get more honest and/or direct as social distancing continues. Among other things, that means they will tell you if your song for the bouquet toss is a little too cheesy. Notably, not every wedding requires each “traditional” dance, so, as always, adapt the norm to fit your vision!
Where to Start with Your Wedding Playlist: The Specifics
First Dance Song, According to Forrest from WeddingWire
- “Most overplayed song: ‘Perfect’ by Ed Sheeran”
- “Better choice: ‘Lover’ by Taylor Swift”
- “Other good options: ‘If I Ain’t Got You’ (Alicia Keys Cover) by James Bay, ‘Blessed’ by Thomas Rhett”
- In addition to Forrest’s suggestions: “The Way You Love Me” by Faith Hill or “Love Your Love The Most” by Eric Church could provide the perfect excerpts for your first dance.
Daddy-Daughter Dance, According to Forrest from WeddingWire
- “Most overplayed song: ‘I Loved Her First’ by Heartland”
- “Better choice: ‘First Man’ by Camila Cabello”
- “Other good options: ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ by Frankie Valli and The 4 Seasons, ‘Daughters’ by John Mayer”
Mother-Son Dance, According to Forrest from WeddingWire
- “Most overplayed song: ‘My Wish’ by Rascal Flatts”
- “Better choice: A special song that has meaning to you and your mom.”
- “Other good options: ‘Forever Young’ by Rod Stewart, ‘Because You Loved Me’ by Celine Dion”
- We LOVE how Forrest asks wedding planners to choose something meaningful. Whether you find meaning in “Simple Man” or maybe a song you sang at your 5th grade talent show, make it matter!
Cake Cutting, According to Forrest from WeddingWire
- “Most overplayed song: ‘Sugar’ by Maroon 5″
- “Other good options: ‘Sweetheart’ by Thomas Rhett, ‘Love You Madly’ by Cake”
Last Dance, According to Forrest from WeddingWire
- “Most overplayed song: ‘Closing Time’ by Semisonic”
- “Better choice: ‘We Are Young’ by fun.”
- At Daisy Hill’s Jones Wedding, the DJ queued up UGA’s 4th quarter song that any and all Dawg fans can hum for you. This started the line up for the sparkler send-off. Think creatively! Are you a part of any communities with traditions you could borrow for your event?
Which songs did you play at your wedding? Alternatively, which songs did you refuse to play? We want to hear anything and everything about your wedding playlists. Again, we hope you have lots of jam seshes and dance parties to brighten your home! Stay safe & well, everyone.